I read an article a while back about how photo apps with filters are influencing how we remember our memories. I don't actually think that is a bad thing. The filter I used on this photo is the way I remember this moment. It was a long day. I felt a little gritty from exhaustion. And I looked across the room at this scene, my heart went "ka-thunk" with a big jolt of happiness. Softly out of focus is exactly right.